After hearing so many sad stories from my friend, I eventually found out the reason. I came to a conclusion that even though these women are great, there are some deadly mistake they made which attract exactly the wrong type of guy. I might sound like a mom below, and some of the tips I am going to mention might not be pleasing to hear, however, there is no time for wavering. Here are several reasons why you always ended up getting nsa hookup. I hope I can help you find true love.
Dressing
When you plan to go out, you look like a 16 years old little girl just coming out of her mom’s closet. If you are wearing heavy makeup and showy clothes, then just give it up. Don’t pretend you are searching for quick flirt relationship. There are many reasons, one of which are these wearing can make you look stupid and attract the wrong kind of guy, because they are not relationship material.
When you go out, just dress like you usually do. If possible, try more natural outfit. I am not saying that you shouldn’t dress up, but you should dress as you usually do instead of the way you think it could attract men. I met a boyfriend whom I went out with for 3 years.
Do not text him casually
You may not text a guy like this when you get his phone number “hey, what’s up?” or “wanna grab a drink or something?” That is just way to casual. Actually, I do not know what you could be texting him, because I never did that. What I do know is that such a text will tell him that you are one of them and you are just as casual as they are, given the fact that they really are. You cannot attract the right type of guy who are also looking for relationship, because you definitely sound too casual. That is the reason you only get one night hookup.
Act like a lady. Tell him that it is nice to see him and want to see him again. Don’t be too casual and don’t act too cool. If you are cold, he might think you are not interested in him, but if you act too much, you are probably going to end up with being his one night hookup partner or fwb.