Although this speech may be disappointing, it is just something you need to discuss. You need to be safe when you are dating, and avoid making a big mistake that will make you regret your whole life. It is important to use protective measures as it protects you from sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.
Believe it or not, there are many people who like to hookup without protection, so it is very important to mention this. No matter how you think this is unnecessary, there are always some people who don't think so, so don't assume that your date is the same as your perception of security. Regardless of the reason given by the other party, you must insist on using protective measures.
Always use protection
Many men like to insist on not wearing a condom to make love. They will tell you everything about they are clean and they are not going to get you pregnant and so on. Don't believe it, you should make it clear that you want to use protective measures, otherwise nothing will happen. You can read others' experience on free dating apps.
If the guy ran away after you said this, it would be better for you, you have escaped from a disaster. Don't be sad because of this, no matter how many men have run away from you. Many people don't even know they have a sexually transmitted disease. You shouldn't expect them to know what they are saying.
Even if you are together, you agree to use protective measures, you must also make sure that you have a condom ready to prevent him from forgetting to buy some. Be prepared, because it is difficult to control yourself when you are hungry, and you may be able to weather the storm without protection.
Don't rush to seek success
Chatting with someone on the Internet may make you feel comfortable and safe, but meeting that person is another matter. Think about it, you won't let someone you don't know borrow your car? Maybe not, you shouldn't go to bed with the person you met for the first time.
I know what you are thinking. This is just for one time one night. You won’t be seeing each other later. Yes, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't take a moment to learn more about that person and see what kind of people they are and learn something about their background.
Try to find out if he has a lot of experience with one night hook up, or if he has just started. Ask him about his sexual history, what does he do for a living, how long he has been doing this, and why he decided to go hooking up. This is how you understand some of his basics and make sure he doesn't have any problems before you hookup.